Though life coaching can include counseling, mentoring, teaching, training, or consulting, its primary premise is that the client just needs to learn how to re-connect to their own soul, mind, and body (i.e, their real Holy Trinity) to solve any life issue/goal they are struggling with. In the process the client will learn how to ask the right questions in order to discover the right answers. This is where a life coach can help. As a result, life coaching sessions are extremely empowering and effective as the client discovers, often for the first time, how wise, intelligent, resourceful, and incredibly powerful they really are. The goal of a real coaching session should be to put an end to the need for further coaching sessions, to be free of all wounds and insecurities by knowing exactly what they are and their root causes and how to heal them in a conscious way. As the client achieves true self-realization or full self-knowledge, they will naturally stop giving their power away to other people, products, services, institutions, belief systems, or hyper-dimensional beings. It does not mean that the client will no longer need people, material things, or services, but that the client will do so in a way that is balanced and healthy.
Life coaches should employ methods in the beginning that ensure the client take actual steps towards their goal as a way to keep the client accountable and motivated until the client can reach a point where they are inspired to take action. The word inspire broken down means in–spirit or coming from Spirit or from within. Once the client has reached this stage of development, there is no longer a need for a coach.
Health coaching is a relatively new, but rapidly growing specialty in life coaching due to the increasing cost of health care and increasing rates of death from chronic health conditions. It is different from personal training in that it does not only entail achieving a certain physical fitness condition through physical exercise activities, but it takes into account all contributing factors to body health including diet, detoxification, eliminating exposure to environmental toxins, and mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Health coaching sessions are typically geared towards eliminating a health condition, or to achieve a specific level of health or health goal.
Spiritual coaching is also a relatively new, but rapidly growing specialty in life coaching due to many people being forced by the deterioration of our physical world to seek non-physical answers and solutions. Spiritual coaching sessions are typically geared towards the goal of spiritual awakening, enlightenment, self-realization, freedom from samsara or all forms of suffering, and the realization or experience of the true nature of Reality.
Holistic Life Coaching
The word holistic has popularly been associated with the use of natural herbal remedies for disease and sickness. However, the actual definition of holistic is “considering a person or thing as a whole, rather than as separate parts” which can be applied not only to medicine but also to coaching. Since there are three aspects of a person: spirit, mind, and body, coaching sessions are significantly more effective and changes are permanent when all three aspects of a person are addressed and integrated. Oftentimes, when only one aspect of a person is worked on, the desired change or achievement is temporary either creating a relapse or transferring a problem in another area.
What to Look For in a Coach
In addition to the above description of a coach, look for a person who has already achieved what you are looking for. For example, if you need life coaching for a relationship goal or issue, look for someone who is already in a happy and healthy long-term relationship. If you need health coaching, look for someone who is full of energy, vitality, and is physically healthy and fit. If you need spiritual coaching, look for someone who is enlightened or self-realized (i.e., free from all wounds and insecurities as is possible in a physical human body), not just full of book knowledge from years of reading self-help and spiritual books. Unfortunately, it is a human tendency for someone to want to pursue a career in coaching specializing in an area that they actually need the most help in as a way to either cover up that deficiency or as a way for them to learn through other people how to solve this issue. Have you ever met a therapist, counselor, or psychologist that could really use their own services? In fact, the most ideal coach would be someone who is no longer seeking answers and is already self-realized in all areas of life to avoid issues of projection onto the client. Projection is this human phenomena of seeing in other people what you actually have in yourself, also known as the mirror effect. It can be very beautiful if what the coach has inside is unblocked Love, Beauty, Grace, and Peace; however, if the coach still has fear, insecurity, frustration, or other trapped emotions inside, it can be very harmful to the client and further propagate the denial of the coach that it is in someone else and not inside them. To get clues, look at the coach’s relationships, their career, their family, children, friends, spiritual connection, their physical health, mental and emotional health, etc. See the coach’s success in all areas of their life as their credentials, proven experience, or track record.
Look for an intuitive coach or a coach that is emotionally intelligent, inner directed by their own Holy Trinity (i.e., their own soul, mind, and body and not an outside entity or being), have extensive life experiences (including past lifetimes of experience), and is as free of wounds and insecurities as possible due to their many years of intensive and successful personal shadow work. A coach who is very aware of all their wounds and insecurities and there root causes are most likely to be able to free themselves of them and can therefore help you do the same. Intuitive does not necessarily mean psychic or able to predict future events with accuracy. Intuitive means that they can hear, see, feel, and/or get direct downloads of information or knowledge from their personal connection to the Ethernet (the spiritual equivalent to an unbiased version of the Internet) that directs them to ask the client key questions that lead to very illuminating and insightful answers in the client resulting in major permanent breakthroughs.
Beware of coaches who do not empower clients by training them to be self-reliant (connect to their own soul, mind, and body) as these coaches are more interested in making the client dependent on them for either ego gratification or to continue extracting money from the client.
About Coach Ngoc
According to Ngoc’s numerology chart, Ngoc is an ancient soul who incarnated in this lifetime on Earth with zero karma which means this is her last lifetime on Earth. Ancient souls who have also healed their wounds and insecurities incurred in the current lifetime have thousands of lifetimes of experience and wisdom so they make ideal coaches. Healed ancient souls tend to be claircognizant (direct knower or direct knowledge intuitive who connects to the Ethernet directly and therefore receives its information in the form of raw data). Claircognizance is considered the best way to receive information because the other ways of receiving information (see below) are filtered through the five senses which are subject to interpretation and if the person is not clear of all wounds and insecurities, it can be misinterpreted. Claircognizance, on the other hand, directly receives raw data unfiltered (through the 6th sense) which therefore does not need to be interpreted.
- clairvoyant — connects to the Ethernet through their vision portal thereby receiving information in the form of mental images, scenes, or pictures
- clairsentient — connects to the Ethernet through their nervous system portal thereby receiving information in the form of sensations in the body
- clairaudient — connects to the Ethernet through their auditory portal thereby receiving information in the form of sounds
- clairnascent — connects to the Ethernet through their nasal portal thereby receiving information in the form of smells
- clairgustant — connects to the Ethernet through their gustatory portal thereby receiving information in the form of tastes
Ngoc’s spiritual name is “the Illuminator” which means “the one who illuminates or lights the way for others.” Everyone has a spiritual name that they may or may not yet be aware of. Your spiritual name indicates the gift or talent you were given to be shared with the world. Though not necessary, your spiritual name can be the same as your human name (i.e., your birth, married, or legally chosen name) or have a similar meaning to your human name. For example, Ngoc is a very common Vietnamese first name that means “precious gem, jade, stone, or diamond” and her married name is Luzardo (luz–ardo), which means “ardent light” in Spanish. So the human name Ngoc Luzardo all together means “diamond with ardent light.”
Like Mark Zuckerberg (the founder of Facebook), Abraham Lincoln, and Franklin D Roosevelt’s numerology chart, Ngoc has a number 5 life path – the number of the catalyst for change. Number 5 life paths move people forward, get them unstuck, and change them forever on an individual or a collective level. Ngoc also has a Master Number 11 destiny, which is the number of a “lightworker” or “worker of the Light” who spreads their light on the path so others can be brought out of their own darkness. Master Number 11s are very tuned in to the world from which they came, can access information from the Ethernet, and be a very inspirational speaker and writer.
Ngoc and JAL will be celebrating their 22nd year of holy matrimony in August 2017 (almost 25 years together if dating years are included) and are living proof that love and passion can actually grow exponentially over time and not disappear over time like most marriages (see Monogamy: The Ultimate Path to Spiritual Enlightenment blog article to learn more). Ngoc and JAL are soul mates who have turned into twin flames over time. They have been blessed with three wonderful happy and healthy children who are the ultimate expression of the joy they share in their life. Ngoc gave an all natural (no-drugs, surgery, complications, or other interventions) birth to all three children under water (a waterbirth) in the privacy of their own home with JAL by her side through the entire short labor and birth experience ranging from under 2 hours total to under 4.5 hours total. JAL caught each miraculous gift from God as they shot out of the birth canal and cut their umbilical cord 30 minutes later. For information about Ngoc, see the About Us page.
Last year, I had unexpected health and emotional crisis. Health, career, relationships were slipping away from me. Although doctors were trying to find the cause of my condition, something inside me was telling that it is not only physical or psychological. Ngoc was the only person who could understand what I was going through. Looking back now, I feel grateful to have known her. Like a very loving friend, she listened to me with great patience and non- judgment. I felt that I can open up to her and that really helped me to start seeing deeper side of myself. Ngoc truly initiated this beautiful journey of self-discovery for me. ~ Tejal Modi
I’ve known Ngoc for more than 15 years now, she has been a friend and a mentor and an inspiration to me. In different areas of my life like relationship, live paths, love, health, nutrition and even parenting (I don’t have kids, but I always been amaze by her 3 kids I’ve seen them growing up to be Extraordinary and Happy. I have never seen this kids fight, or be mad at each other). As a coach she has always been a great listener, open minded and very insightful. ~ Karina Espina
What to Expect From Coaching Sessions With Ngoc
Coaching sessions with Ngoc can be conducted in a private location on the Ardent Light Motherland, or via Skype video conferencing and remote computer sharing when needed. Unlimited between session support or communication is provided via a private web space that only Ngoc and the client has access to. Between session web-based support or communication is provided at no additional cost, however, responses from Ngoc are subject to Ngoc’s availability. Though Ngoc may not be able to respond to all inquiries, ideas, or comments between sessions, client is encouraged to continue journaling, reporting progress, and submitting questions or feedback on the private web space to maximize the use of time for the client in the next session which may even reduce the number of sessions needed overall. To be eligible for unlimited web-based between session support, sessions must be scheduled no more than one month apart. Web-based support and communication automatically ends when no more sessions are scheduled.
In addition to the standard life/health/spiritual coaching, sessions with Ngoc may include but is not limited to Numerology readings; Emotional Intelligence, Pranayama, Yoga, and Meditation training; Holistic Health Consultations; and other practices as the need arises. No two coaching sessions are ever alike. They are as unique, inspired, creative, and spontaneous as the individuals who participate in them. The client has 100% control over what they want to explore, work on, or discuss. Ngoc will ask the client for opinions on various suggestions or ideas if they come up and if client wants to hear them. Clients can bring in other people into the sessions as needed for the benefit of the client.
To maximize the use of time during the sessions and possibly reduce the number of sessions needed overall for the client, there will be reading material and a questionnaire for the client to fill out before the first session and there may be supportive assignments between sessions.
Schedule a Holistic (Life/Health/Spiritual) Coaching Session
All first-time clients are required to complete and submit a questionnaire that assesses their physical health, mental and emotional well-being, and level of spiritual enlightenment before their first session. The information provided on the questionnaire will help reduce the amount of time spent in the session (which reduces the cost for clients since clients pay by the hour), make the session more productive, and help focus the session on more advance issues.
If you are not a new client, please review your original questionnaire and update it with the new information and resend it as instructed on the last page of the questionnaire. After you turn in your new or updated questionnaire, Ngoc will review and meditate on the information you provide and then write down what she finds in a written recommendation. She will then schedule a coaching session with you to discuss and explore it with you and do any applicable recommendations during the session.
$25 per hour